Do You Have to Pay to Adopt a Child?
What to Expect to Pay in an Adoption
The financial side of adoption can be a mystery to many hopeful adoptive families. Plenty often wonder, “Does it cost money to adopt a child?”
The short answer: yes. You do have to pay to adopt. But, what you’re paying for and how much you pay will depend on a number of factors, such as:
The type of adoption you pursue
The adoption professional you choose to work with
The unique details of your adoption situation
If you have more specific questions about paying for adoption, you can get free information here or when you call us at 1-800-ADOPTION. Prospective birth parents can get more information on adoption costs and the potential for financial assistance when you complete this online form and connect with one of our adoption specialists today.
In the meantime, let’s go over the important facts about how to pay for an adoption.
Why Does Adoption Cost Money?
Adoption is a life-changing process, and it has to be done well. That means there are highly important services provided by adoption agencies, social workers, attorneys and more. All of this protects the best interests of the birth parents, adoptive family and child.
Because something this important has to be handled with care, there are costs associated with the process.
While some types of adoption are less expensive than others, all adoption involves some sort of financial cost. There are a number of variables that will influence the cost of adoption, like the type of adoption you choose and the adoption professional you work with.
When determining how much it will take to pay for adoption, seek out adoption professionals who are completely honest and transparent. If an adoption professional, such as a consultant or facilitator is hiding some of its adoption fees, this may be a sign that they are not right to work with and you’re at risk of an adoption scam.
The best way to approach paying for adoption is to be totally open about what it will cost, which is exactly what American Adoptions is committed to doing.
As a full-service, fully licensed infant adoption agency, we’re your guide through every step of the process from the first phone call to the post-placement interactions. And, we’ll provide you with honest and transparent information about your adoption costs.
We also offer our Risk-Sharing Program. In the event of an adoption disruption, we will directly refund you the money you’ve spent on the adoption opportunity so that you can choose how you’d like to use it moving forward.
Since 2009, our program has saved adoptive families around $4.6 million, while other adoption professionals such as consultants and facilitators force you to repay some (if not all) adoption fees to continue pursuing your journey.
What Does it Cost to Adopt a Child? What Are You Paying For?
This can be a difficult topic to discuss for multiple reasons. For one, it can make people feel uncomfortable because of the personal nature of adoption.
We are talking about children — about a birth mother making a brave and selfless choice and an adoptive family showing a courageous level of love and commitment. Something about bringing money into that equation feels wrong, but that is largely because of a misunderstanding about what the money goes toward.
Do you have to pay for adoption? Yes, but you are not “buying a child.” That false idea — that paying for adoption is some sort of transaction for the baby — is what can make many people feel uncomfortable about the subject. But, the cost of adoption is not in any way a transaction for a child. Rather, you are paying to adopt because of the costs associated with the adoption process.
And, the adoption process can be complex. The legal, medical and professional work you need to complete a responsible, ethical and legal domestic infant adoption is extensive.
Your adoption journey will require:
When a family is paying for adoption, they are paying to support all of these necessary functions.
Additionally, licensed adoption agencies operate within the boundaries and requirements of:
These are all safeguards to ensure that everyone involved in the adoption — the prospective birth mother, the hopeful adoptive family and the child — are treated fairly. In order to meet these standards and provide the best services possible, adoptive families do have to pay to adopt.
How to Pay for an Adoption
Where does the money actually go? How do you pay for an adoption?
In nearly all cases, your money will go to your adoption agency. They will distribute it to the right places and make sure every dollar is used correctly.
For example, one part of the adoption cost covers prospective birth mother expenses, such as:
Allowable living expenses
Rather than handle this directly, you will send the adoption fees to your agency. The agency will establish the correct distribution of funds. In this regard, you should work with an adoption agency that is fully licensed. They will ensure that your adoption process will be held to the highest ethical and legal standards.
Hopefully, this guide has given you a better understanding of your question, “Does it cost money to pay for a child?” For more information on paying for adoption, or to learn about how you can start your adoption process, you can get free information here or when you call us at 1-800-ADOPTION.
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